An extra flag when creating a RefUpdate object allows the
caller to destroy the symref and replace it with an object
ref, a.k.a. detached HEAD.

Change-Id: Ia88d48eab1eb4861ebfa39e3be9258c3824a19db
Signed-off-by: Robin Rosenberg <robin.rosenberg@dewire.com>
Signed-off-by: Shawn O. Pearce <spearce@spearce.org>